"You will never see the true him or her unless they want you to. An individual can appear very beautiful and attractive outwardly, but may be thorny inside. Conversely, some may seem unattractive on the outside but attract all the good things in life more than you could ever imagine. First impressions don't define people; they are meant to captivate your soul and blind you to what lies ahead. Good souls often hide who they truly are—you are meant to discover them."
When we encounter someone for the first time, it is all too easy to get caught up in their outward beauty or appeal. Society conditions us to equate attractiveness with value; we place individuals in neatly labeled boxes based on their looks, backgrounds, fashion sense, and demeanor. But this superficial assessment can often lead us astray.
An individual may appear stunningly beautiful, radiating charm and confidence, yet beneath that exterior could lie unresolved issues, bitterness, or a personality that resembles a thorn—sharp and painful to those who dare to get too close. Their beauty may act as a protective armor, a way to keep others at bay while concealing the turmoil within.
Conversely, there are those whose outward appearance may not conform to conventional standards of beauty. They might have a rough edge or a style that doesn’t immediately attract attention. However, it’s these individuals who often emanate the warmth of authenticity and kindness. They possess qualities that attract good fortune, meaningful connections, and carries great energy that can shy away our darkness; in ways that might seem unfathomable to an outsider. Their inner beauty shines through like a beacon, drawing positivity and meaningful relationships toward them. It is not their appearance but their character, kindness, and resilience that create the magnetic pull that captivates those around them. The irony of these individual is that, majority who formed a relationship or connections with them is for a purpose with agenda, once their service is no longer required, they get dumped; on the food chain people sees them as prey. Kindhearted individuals often experience more heart break and frequently feel neglected. Well the good news is, they are divine, they can easily switch from being prey to becoming the predator themselves. Hence the reason for hiding their true selves.
First impressions can be deceiving, society teaches us that the first glance counts for everything. We create narratives in our minds based on that fleeting moment—sometimes creating illusions that overshadow reality. This phenomenon cultivates a dangerous environment where we can be blinded to what truly lies beneath the surface. Good souls often cloak themselves in layers of humility and modesty, reluctant to reveal their true selves. They may come across as undistinguished or plain without any tapestries, but when one takes the time to peel off those back layers, they discover treasures beyond measure: compassion, wisdom, humor, and a depth of character that can illuminate even the darkest corners of existence.
Finding these hidden gems requires effort and intention. It challenges us to look beyond surface-level attributes and engage in authentic conversations, to listen actively, and to embrace vulnerability. It compels us to question our automatic reactions and judgments, nudging us toward deeper understanding and appreciation of individuality.
Moreover, the journey to uncovering someone’s true self teaches us invaluable lessons about our own perceptions. It encourages us to examine our own thoughts, prompting us to ask ourselves: Are we too quick to judge? Are we imposing our standards of beauty and success on others? As we unfold the complexity of those around us, we inevitably start to unravel our own misconceptions about self-worth and identity.
In a world, where people are obsessed greatly with appearances, where social media is now distorting the perceptions of reality, our reality, the true essence of people are becoming uncertain. We must remind ourselves to seek authenticity despite the overwhelming allure of surface-level attraction. While it may feel easier to accept someone at face value, the real magic often lies in the shade of who they are beneath that outer.
Most of all, the quest for deeper connections leads us to a plethora of enriching experiences. When we learn to recognize and cherish the true selves of those around us, we create a tapestry woven with trust, empathy, and genuine companionship. The people who are willing to show us their true selves, those who peel the back layers and allow us a glimpse of their authentic being, are the ones who will enrich our lives in ways we never thought possible.
By Mary
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